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As you explore options for starting your surrogacy journey, consider Washington State as one of your top picks. Known for being one of the top ten best places to live in the U.S., Washington offers a welcoming environment and laws that protect and support both intended parents and surrogates. With its excellent medical care and a strong sense of community, Washington creates a supportive foundation for a positive surrogacy experience.

Surrogacy is a life-changing process, filled with hope, dreams and the joy of building a family. At Joy of Life®, we understand how important it is to choose a surrogacy agency that can guide you through every step with care and expertise. That’s why we provide resources like this blog to answer common questions, explain the different surrogacy laws, guide you through the surrogacy process and more to help you gain the knowledge you need to make the best decisions for yourself and your family.

Understanding Surrogacy in Washington

Surrogacy in Washington provides legal options for both gestational and traditional surrogacy, giving intended parents and surrogates the ability to choose the best path for them. Washington is known for its surrogacy-friendly laws, including the Uniform Parentage Act, which allows intended parents to secure their legal rights before the birth in gestational surrogacy cases. This early legal recognition helps create a smoother, more transparent process, allowing everyone involved to focus on the surrogacy journey with greater confidence.

Beyond its legal advantages, Washington prioritizes the well-being of everyone involved in the surrogacy process. It emphasizes thorough medical and psychological screenings, helping ensure that surrogates and intended parents are fully prepared and supported throughout the journey.

This state recognizes surrogates’ incredible contribution, which is reflected through fair compensation and strong legal protections that help ensure their rights are upheld throughout the process. 

Why Choose Surrogacy in Washington? 

Surrogacy is a deeply personal journey, and in Washington, you’ll benefit from clear laws and supportive regulations designed to protect intended parents and surrogates. These surrogacy-friendly laws provide clarity and security around important matters such as parental rights and agreements. 

Partnering with a caring and experienced agency like Joy of Life® can make all the difference. With compassionate guidance and expert support, you’ll feel informed, understood and supported every step of the way through this life-changing experience.

How To Become a Surrogate in Washington 

Screening Process

Before beginning the surrogacy journey, many states like Washington require surrogates to participate in medical and psychological screenings to help ensure their health and well-being are fully supported for the journey ahead. This step may include:

  • Medical History: A thoughtful review of your past pregnancies and overall health, helping ensure that your body is prepared for the surrogacy journey ahead.
  • Blood Tests and Lab Work: Testing to check for any health concerns and confirm that you’re in the best condition to carry a healthy pregnancy.
  • Pelvic Exam: A gentle assessment to confirm your reproductive health is in the best possible condition for carrying a pregnancy.
  • Infectious Disease Screenings: These screenings help identify and prevent any potential risks so you can move forward knowing that both you and the baby are protected throughout the surrogacy journey to help you feel confident and prepared. 
  • Mental Health Consultation: A meeting with a licensed professional to discuss your motivations and emotional readiness.
  • Support System Exploration: A discussion to ensure you have a strong network of people around you for encouragement and assistance.
  • Emotional Challenges Assessment: A conversation to explore and prepare for any emotional challenges that may arise, providing you with tools and resources to help you feel supported every step of the way.

At Joy of Life®, you’ll never face these steps alone. Our team is here to guide you through every aspect of the screening process, offering support, understanding and care. You’ll feel confident knowing that your health and well-being are our priority as you take this remarkable step.

Surrogacy Agreement

A surrogacy agreement sets the foundation for a smooth and secure surrogacy journey. It clearly defines the roles, rights and responsibilities of both the surrogate and the intended parents, covering everything from medical decisions to financial arrangements. This agreement helps ensure everyone is aligned, protecting all parties and reducing legal risks.

We work closely with experienced legal professionals to guide surrogates and intended parents through the process. Through open communication and thoughtful support, we help create a personalized, legally sound agreement that gives everyone the confidence and security they need. 

Surrogate Compensation in Washington

Surrogate Pay

In Washington, surrogates are thoughtfully compensated for their time, dedication and selfless acts of service. The compensation package is structured to cover the financial aspects and personal needs that arise throughout the surrogacy process. Here’s a breakdown: 

  • Base Pay: Surrogates in Washington typically receive a base compensation ranging from $40,000 to $60,000, depending on experience, the agency and specific agreements with intended parents.
  • Maternity Clothing Allowance: Surrogates are provided with an allowance for maternity clothing to ensure their comfort during pregnancy.
  • Medical Expenses: All medical costs related to the pregnancy, including prenatal care, labor and delivery, are covered by the intended parents.
  • Wage Reimbursement: Surrogates are compensated for any time taken off work due to medical appointments or pregnancy-related issues, ensuring they do not face financial strain during the process.
  • Travel Expenses: If a surrogate needs to travel for medical appointments or other surrogacy-related activities, travel costs, including transportation, meals and lodging, are fully covered.

In addition to a comprehensive compensation package, Joy of Life® offers several additional benefits to ensure surrogates feel fully cared for throughout their journey. Emotional support and counseling services are available to help surrogates navigate any challenges that may arise. Surrogates also receive personalized attention from a dedicated team that is always ready to assist and answer questions. We also offer access to health and wellness resources, including nutrition guidance, to help surrogates stay healthy and comfortable throughout the pregnancy.

Insurance and Surrogacy Costs

Managing surrogacy costs with insurance in Washington can be complex, but understanding what’s covered can make the process much smoother. Typically, health insurance policies do not automatically cover surrogacy-related medical expenses, so intended parents often need to secure specialized surrogacy insurance to cover the surrogate’s prenatal care, labor and delivery.

In Washington, surrogacy costs can range from $120,000 to $160,000, depending on factors like medical expenses, legal fees and surrogate compensation. These costs often include:

  • Surrogate’s Medical Expenses: Medical costs related to the surrogate’s care, such as prenatal visits, delivery and any complications, are typically covered by insurance or specialized policies purchased by the intended parents.
  • Legal Fees: Legal support, including the drafting and negotiating of surrogacy agreements, is another key cost.
  • Additional Coverage: Some surrogates may already have insurance, but intended parents often need to purchase supplemental surrogacy insurance to cover all medical expenses.

Dealing with surrogacy insurance can feel overwhelming to some, so we’re here to help every step of the way. Our team works closely with trusted insurance professionals to carefully review existing policies, identify gaps in coverage and assist in securing specialized surrogacy insurance when necessary. This helps ensure that both surrogates and intended parents are fully protected, providing reassurance and preventing unexpected costs or complications throughout the process.

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The Surrogacy Process With Joy of Life

Matching With Intended Parents

Finding the perfect connection between a surrogate and intended parents is at the heart of every successful surrogacy experience. This process is approached with great care and attention at Joy of Life®. We focus on matching surrogates and intended parents based on their values, goals and expectations for the journey ahead. By considering important factors like communication preferences and shared visions of the experience, Joy of Life® aims to create strong, trusting relationships. This thoughtful approach helps ensure a fulfilling and joyous journey for everyone involved.

Medical Screenings and Embryo Transfer

After a match is made, the medical screenings begin, bringing us one step closer to delivering a happy and healthy baby. These evaluations help ensure that the surrogate is physically prepared and fully ready for pregnancy. Our team collaborates with experienced medical professionals to conduct comprehensive screenings, prioritizing the health and well-being of all parties.

After completing screenings, a legal agreement is established between the intended parents and the surrogate, ensuring clarity and protection for everyone involved. Once this important step is complete, the embryo transfer process begins — an exciting milestone that brings intended parents one step closer to fulfilling their dreams. Throughout this stage, we provide continuous guidance and care, supporting you in navigating this extraordinary journey with confidence and peace of mind. 

Ongoing Support and Care

Support shouldn’t stop after the embryo transfer. Throughout the pregnancy, ongoing psychological and emotional care plays an important role for both surrogates and intended parents. Surrogacy involves more than just physical health — it’s also an emotional journey. Joy of Life® stays by your side at every stage, offering guidance, encouragement and the resources you need to confidently navigate this experience.

We believe that your support system shouldn’t end with the embryo transfer. Throughout the pregnancy, ongoing psychological and emotional care is essential for both surrogates and intended parents. Surrogacy isn’t just a physical journey — it’s an emotional one too. We will stay by your side every step of the way, providing encouragement, guidance and the resources you need to move forward with confidence.  

Legal Aspects of Surrogacy in Washington

Surrogacy Agreements

In Washington, surrogacy agreements are legally required to help ensure that both surrogates and intended parents have a clear understanding of their rights and responsibilities. The contract must be signed and notarized before any medical procedures, such as embryo transfer, can begin. Some of the key elements of a surrogacy agreement in Washington are:

  • Parental Rights: The agreement legally establishes the intended parents as the child’s legal parents from birth. In Washington, intended parents do not need to adopt the child after birth, as the surrogacy agreement itself serves as the legal foundation for establishing their parental rights.
  • Compensation and Financial Terms: The agreement clearly outlines the financial compensation for the surrogate, including base pay, maternity allowances, medical expenses, wage reimbursement and any additional benefits. It also addresses unexpected costs, such as medical complications. 
  • Medical Decisions: This section details who will make medical decisions during the pregnancy and emergencies. It also includes prenatal care, labor and delivery agreements to ensure all parties are aligned on medical preferences.
  • Insurance and Medical Expenses: The agreement specifies how medical insurance will cover the surrogate’s prenatal care, labor and delivery. Washington law ensures that the intended parents are responsible for these costs, either through existing insurance or specialized surrogacy insurance.
  • Termination and Selective Reduction: The agreement must address decision-making roles in pregnancy termination or selective reduction cases, offering legal clarity and protection for both the surrogate and the intended parents.
  • Surrogate’s Rights: The surrogate’s right to receive emotional support, counseling and legal representation throughout the process is also protected by Washington law. 
  • Legal Protections for All Parties: Surrogacy agreements in Washington are legally enforceable. The agreement addresses potential risks, dispute resolution and medical emergencies, reducing the likelihood of legal complications.

Partnering with a knowledgeable surrogacy agency can help simplify the process of creating a detailed agreement, making sure that all legal aspects are properly addressed. By working closely with legal experts, we make this seemingly complex process much easier to navigate. 

Rights of the Surrogate and Intended Parents 

Washington provides clear legal protections for both surrogates and intended parents. One important protection is the ability to obtain a Pre-Birth Parentage Order (PBO), which legally recognizes the intended parents as the child’s legal guardians from birth. This pre-birth order helps ensure that parental rights are established before delivery, avoiding the need for any post-birth legal steps, such as adoption. Surrogacy agreements in Washington must also be approved by the court before any medical procedures, further enhancing your legal security.

Washington’s surrogacy laws require that either the surrogate or intended parents be a resident of the state. However, even if no one involved lives in Washington, participation is still possible as long as at least one medical procedure or mental health consultation takes place within the state. This approach allows families from various locations to move forward with their surrogacy journey while following Washington’s supportive legal guidelines.

To help ease the legal process, we partner with specialized reproductive attorneys who handle the legal complexities for you. From drafting and validating agreements to filing your pre-birth order with the court, every step is covered. Our goal is to ensure your rights are protected so you can focus on the exciting journey of welcoming your child.

Choosing the Best Surrogacy Agency in Washington

Choosing the perfect surrogacy agency involves finding one that truly gets what you need and offers the support you deserve throughout the entire process. This means making sure that the terms and conditions of your surrogacy agreement are clearly explained so that everyone involved can confidently move forward on this incredible journey.

Agency Fees and Transparency

Surrogacy agencies typically have varying fee structures, which often include medical expenses, legal fees and surrogate compensation. Your agency should hold itself to a high standard by providing a clear breakdown of all associated costs without any hidden fees. This transparency gives intended parents the freedom to make informed decisions without the added worry of unexpected financial burdens.

We believe that every intended parent should be able to focus on creating a beautiful family without the added stress of facing unclear or confusing financial details. Our approach ensures that every family and surrogate we work with is fully informed about all costs from the beginning. By offering a clear, detailed breakdown of agency fees, legal expenses and compensation, we aim to eliminate confusion and help you plan with confidence. There are no hidden fees or last-minute surprises, just open communication and full clarity at every step. 

Why Joy of Life?

Our team stands out for its compassionate approach and experienced professionals. Many of those who guide families through this process have been surrogates themselves, bringing invaluable firsthand experience and empathy to every interaction. This unique insight allows Joy of Life® to offer not just practical support but a deep understanding of the emotional journey that surrogacy entails.

This shared experience fosters a supportive environment where both surrogates and intended parents can feel understood and cared for. Learn how this approach has impacted our families and surrogates through their heartfelt testimonials and success stories. 

Meet Surrogate Mother, Alondra
“I decided to become a surrogate after having a daughter of my own. I felt like this is something that I can do to help others who are not able to conceive or who want to have kids. It’s definitely a rewarding experience and something that you will hold on to for a lifetime. From the beginning, Joy of Life® genuinely shows that they care. I’m glad I went with them.”

Meet Surrogate Mother, Chantel

“[Being a surrogate] was something I felt called to do. I chose to do this for my best friend, who had two miscarriages and had a baby. He was three days old when he passed away. I knew at that moment this is what I wanted to do. I remember her calling me and telling me, ‘I don’t understand how you can have two healthy kids, and I can’t have one’. It was just something I felt I needed to do to help make somebody’s dream come true.”

FAQs About Surrogacy in Washington

What are the requirements for becoming a surrogate in Washington?

If you’re thinking about becoming a surrogate in Washington, there are a few important qualifications to keep in mind:

  • Be a U.S. citizen or permanent resident
  • Be between the ages of 21 to 38
  • Maintain a healthy lifestyle and have a BMI of below 32
  • Be a mother with a good pregnancy history (have carried at least one child to term, no more than two c-sections or five deliveries)
  • Neither you nor any members of your household should have a criminal record
  • Maintain a smoke-free lifestyle and refrain from using illegal drugs
  • Complete thorough criminal background checks

Some of these requirements may vary by agency. These qualifications are in place to support a healthy and safe pregnancy and delivery for both the surrogate and the baby. 

How much does surrogacy cost?

Surrogacy costs can vary based on factors such as medical expenses, legal fees and surrogate compensation, with typical costs ranging from $120,000 to $160,000. This estimate primarily includes surrogate compensation and legal agreements, but additional expenses like IVF clinic fees for medical screenings, embryo transfers and fertility treatments may raise the total cost. Many families explore options such as personal loans, lines of credit or fertility financing programs to help manage these expenses.

What is the difference between traditional and gestational surrogacy?

Gestational surrogacy is the most common form of surrogacy today. In this process, the embryo is created using the egg and sperm of the intended parents (or donors), meaning the surrogate has no genetic connection to the child. Unlike in some states, traditional surrogacy is legal in Washington. In traditional surrogacy, the surrogate’s egg is used, making her the biological mother of the child. While traditional surrogacy is an option, it often involves additional legal considerations compared to gestational surrogacy.

How are surrogates compensated?

To provide secure and timely payments, intended parents can set up an escrow account with a trusted firm. In this arrangement, a neutral third party holds the funds and manages payments to the surrogate according to the agreed schedule. This structured process ensures that payments are made fairly and on time throughout the surrogacy journey. By using a reliable escrow firm, both parties are protected, as funds are only released when specific milestones are met.

For a complete breakdown, please visit our Compensation page.

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Start Your Surrogacy Journey With Joy of Life

Whether you’re ready to grow your family or feel called to help others as a surrogate, Joy of Life® is here to support you. We’re dedicated to guiding you through every step of the surrogacy journey, offering the care and expertise you need to feel confident and supported. Together, we’ll work to make your dreams of building a family come true and help bring the beautiful gift of a baby into the world.

Ready to get started? Reach out to Joy of Life today and take the first step toward your incredible surrogacy journey. 

Joy Millan

Author Joy Millan

I’m Joy, the founder and CEO of Joy of Life. With a professional background as a fertility clinician, I’ve spent thousands of hours working with surrogates and intended parents alike. As a mother of two, I often wished for more support and a deeper commitment to care for those embarking on non-traditional family-building journeys. This is why I established Joy of Life: to create a more robust, compassionate experience in parenthood for both parties involved with surrogacy. In 2021, I stepped back from daily operations at Joy of Life to fight cancer. Fortunately, the combined 20 years of experience from our incredible team has allowed me to focus on my health & recovery. I continue to provide company guidance and serve as the head liaison for our network of doctors, clinicians and caregivers.

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